How to be a Dom

Dom is completely, totally tied into status.  You CANNOT have Dom without high status.  You can have high status without Dom.

High status is essentially a pre-requistic for Dom.

Imagine this:

You've charmed her.  You've got her playing into you.  You're making her try to impress you and do things for you.  She's like a frustrated guy doing whatever she has to do to be with you.

You fly her in.  Shes in your house, lazily being lame doing something.  You look at her and say something like this:

And as you say that, you are walking towards her and looking down into her eyes.  When she says "Cool?!?" in reply at the end you reach around and grab her ass as you smile at her.  You give it a hard smack and walk away.

That is the beginning of being a true Dom.  You play the high status roll and drive up the attraction and then you start making demands in a way where she wants to comply.

And then the demands evolve into commands.

:)